This article was just too good not to post here... at the very bottom of this article is a link to my own role model story.
The Accidental Role Model by Barbara J. Winter
During my daughter Jennie's last year in college, she called me with a startling accusation. "You've ruined me," she said."What do you mean?" I asked while bracing myself for the worst.
"Well," she explained, "my friends are all writing their resumes and going on job interviews. I can't do that." I breathed a sigh of relief and said, "I know. I did that on purpose."
After years of working unhappily in traditional jobs, I started my first homebased business the year that Jennie went off to kindergarten. Right away, it became obvious that my daughter was reaping the rewards of having a happier mom. I was having such a good time in my new creative lifestyle that I became a better parent. I also would find little business projects for Jennie to help with, like putting stamps on a mailing. She loved it. We were growing something together and she was proud of her contribution.
Although I started my entrepreneurial life out of a desire to find more joy in what I did, I also didn't want Jennie to grow up with the negative messages I'd grown up with about work. We can't really model what we haven't learned ourselves, of course, but we can be conscious about the messages we're passing on to our children. "Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on children than the unlived lives of their parents," warned psychologist Carl Jung.
So, naturally, I'm excited when I see a parent make positive changes for themselves -like Rob McCarthy. Rob and I knew each other for years before we met. Rob worked for a large video and audio production company where I bought my seminar tapes so he was the guy I'd call when I needed to replenish my inventory. One day I called to place an order and was told that Rob no longer worked there. A month later, Rob called to tell me he'd moved to a smaller company and wondered if I'd like to move my business there. I promptly made the switch.
Then the same thing happened. I called to place an order and was told that Rob had left. A few weeks later, I got another call from Rob saying he'd decided to start his own business. "Congratulations," I said. "Where's your office?" He explained that he was running it from home and planned to create a mobile studio. He sounded excited and said it was a new experience for him to be home alone all day.
"Do you have kids?" I asked. He told me he had two. "You probably don't realize this, " I said, "but your working from home is going to have an impact on them."
"Besides being around to drive them places after school?"
"Most kids get a really negative message about work" I explained. "They don't understand what it is that their parents do. They just see them leave in the morning and come home tired and crabby. By the time they get ready to work themselves, they have a rather bleak picture of what's in store for them. But if you're working at home, love what you do, and involve your kids in it from time to time, they're going to get an entirely different idea about work." "Wow," Rob said. "I never thought of that."
I cannot recall one single adult that I knew as a child who was joyful about their work. Is it any wonder, then, that many of us grow up thinking of work as a miserable life sentence? I'm optimistic that many young people are going to get a different message as more of us become committed to doing work that we love, and doing it in front of our children. Although some people decide to start a homebased business in order to spend more time with their families, I suspect that few realize that sending a positive message will be a side benefit-one that will have a lasting impact.
When Jennie was about eight years old, she decided that she wanted to go to Disneyland and decided to organize a yard sale and sell her old toys in order to fund this adventure. Her entrepreneurial spirit was already showing her how to solve problems creatively. I wish I had learned that lesson early in life.
Whether you know it or not, you may be more of a role model than you realize. A few years ago, I spent six weeks as a Junior Achievement volunteer teaching fourth graders about the free enterprises system. On my first day there, I confessed that I knew nothing about nine-year-olds.Then I told the kids that I had my own business, but I didn't have a store or an office. After I'd explained my one-person operation, I asked the class if any of them knew someone who was self-employed. At least two-thirds of them raised their hands. I suspect that wouldn't have happened even a decade ago.
I was heartened by the number of my fourth graders who had an entrepreneurial role model in their lives. It is not a responsibility to take lightly. "There is no power on earth," said Booker T. Washington, "that can neutralize the influences of a useful life."
About the Author: Barbara J. Winter is a Las Vegas-based writer, speaker and entrepreneur. She is the author of Making a Living Without a Job and the publisher of Winning Ways newsletter. She conducts seminars throughout the United States, Canada and Europe. You can learn more at www.joyfullyjobless.com
That article kind of makes you stop and think doesn't it! My own "role model" story was really one more of perservence, but now that I look back at I was teaching peservance by doing what I did. http://quikonnex.com/channel/item/24834
April 30, 2008
April 24, 2008
Announcing: A Franchise Online - The Streamline Wealth System
You don't realize it yet but in the next 2 minutes you are going to learn about a simple system I have been searching for over 12 years for.
I just bit the bullet at the beginning of the week, ya see it really goes a little against my grain of what I've been teaching marketers for several years. I've been teaching you need to create your own image and use your own brand for marketing. This week has proven it doesn't have to be like that!
One nice thing about this franchise online is a totaly new person to marketing can follow a simple system and start creating wealth in 30 days. This proven and unique way of marketing levels the playing field in such a way that new marketers are often able to enjoy the same results as us seasoned veterans.
By essentially removing the new marketer from the equation, you can focus on building the business while "outsourcing" the most difficult sales and marketing aspects to the streamline system.
This automated system is one of the most effective automated marketing systems ever created for this industry.
No personal selling, telling, or explaining
No more buying leads or learning how to advertise (unless you choose NOT to use our turn key solutions!)
No more prospecting or dialing for dollars
No more wondering how are the successful marketers actually making their money!
The franchised Streamline Wealth System is guaranteed to be the most powerful sales marketing system in the world, is partnered with the top direct marketing company in the industry, WITHOUT A DOUBT! Together they provide an income opportunity unlike anything every created.

This is perfect for the new entrepreneur. They are able to start seeing results very quickly as their learning curves are all but eliminated for them. Isn't that what we all want for our new people?
Many times when a new person is just starting they don't have the luxury of working their business 40 hours a week. With this full-time is considered 10-15 hours a week(Including training). The can easily replace their job income while working part-time from home.
This busness model can be run from anywhere in the world with a Laptop, Blackberry or even a cell phone. Want to take a vacation? No Problem. Take a week off? No Problem. The system will generate, filter, and qualify your leads while system team captains make all your calls and close all your sales and members FOR YOU!
Very Simple... Little to no internet or computer skills are required. You must however be able to check your email, type with at least two fingers, and be coachable!
I just bit the bullet at the beginning of the week, ya see it really goes a little against my grain of what I've been teaching marketers for several years. I've been teaching you need to create your own image and use your own brand for marketing. This week has proven it doesn't have to be like that!
One nice thing about this franchise online is a totaly new person to marketing can follow a simple system and start creating wealth in 30 days. This proven and unique way of marketing levels the playing field in such a way that new marketers are often able to enjoy the same results as us seasoned veterans.
By essentially removing the new marketer from the equation, you can focus on building the business while "outsourcing" the most difficult sales and marketing aspects to the streamline system.
This automated system is one of the most effective automated marketing systems ever created for this industry.
No personal selling, telling, or explaining
No more buying leads or learning how to advertise (unless you choose NOT to use our turn key solutions!)
No more prospecting or dialing for dollars
No more wondering how are the successful marketers actually making their money!
The franchised Streamline Wealth System is guaranteed to be the most powerful sales marketing system in the world, is partnered with the top direct marketing company in the industry, WITHOUT A DOUBT! Together they provide an income opportunity unlike anything every created.

This is perfect for the new entrepreneur. They are able to start seeing results very quickly as their learning curves are all but eliminated for them. Isn't that what we all want for our new people?
Many times when a new person is just starting they don't have the luxury of working their business 40 hours a week. With this full-time is considered 10-15 hours a week(Including training). The can easily replace their job income while working part-time from home.
This busness model can be run from anywhere in the world with a Laptop, Blackberry or even a cell phone. Want to take a vacation? No Problem. Take a week off? No Problem. The system will generate, filter, and qualify your leads while system team captains make all your calls and close all your sales and members FOR YOU!
Very Simple... Little to no internet or computer skills are required. You must however be able to check your email, type with at least two fingers, and be coachable!
April 17, 2008
Automated Marketing System Explained
Last Sunday in the Veretekk weekly update session we were given some first hand knowledge about how to use Veretekk's Automated Marketing System. Tom Prendergast the CEO of Veretekk has started marketing an MLM business that he has silently been a part of for about 6 years. Now I'm not a part of that business, but I'm reaping the benefits from Tom using Veretekk and then sharing what he is doing.
I captured the recording of this first class "training" Veretekk Automated Lead Generation Training CLICK HERE to listen.
It might take you a few times if you are new marketing online and automated marketing systems to understand how this all fits together. Let me tell ya when Tom Prendergast started talking about a Platimun Veretekk system I was sitting on the edge of my chair and soaking up everything he was saying. Then I realized I already had several Gold Veretekk Systems and if I configured and transfered leads like he taught on Sunday night I have a VERETEKK PLATIMUM SYSTEM!
If you have ever questioned Veretekk Automated Marketing System before after "getting it" you will be faunching at the bit for more. If your marketing strategies on the internet aren't automated the energizer bunny in you will wear out before you hit get to the finish line.
By using Veretekk's Automated Marketing System you can sort through and decide who you want to do business with. I was taught early on in my business there are 2 different way's to bring people in either they come to you or you go first. The people coming into the Veretekk Automated Marketing System come to you, it's up to you to sort through and decide who you want to work with.
I captured the recording of this first class "training" Veretekk Automated Lead Generation Training CLICK HERE to listen.
It might take you a few times if you are new marketing online and automated marketing systems to understand how this all fits together. Let me tell ya when Tom Prendergast started talking about a Platimun Veretekk system I was sitting on the edge of my chair and soaking up everything he was saying. Then I realized I already had several Gold Veretekk Systems and if I configured and transfered leads like he taught on Sunday night I have a VERETEKK PLATIMUM SYSTEM!
If you have ever questioned Veretekk Automated Marketing System before after "getting it" you will be faunching at the bit for more. If your marketing strategies on the internet aren't automated the energizer bunny in you will wear out before you hit get to the finish line.
By using Veretekk's Automated Marketing System you can sort through and decide who you want to do business with. I was taught early on in my business there are 2 different way's to bring people in either they come to you or you go first. The people coming into the Veretekk Automated Marketing System come to you, it's up to you to sort through and decide who you want to work with.
April 11, 2008
Trade Secrets of Testing and Tracking for Results
If you are serious about marketing online to grow your business you will pay attention to what I'm going to share in this post!
I personally don't think of myself as a big "numbers" person, however the longer I'm online the more I realize testing and tracking is just part of running a successful online business. Tracking where the traffic is coming from on your sites will help you to know what to focus on. That's how I generally know when google has ranked my sites for a certain keyword.
Many times I've thought if I could just see the click throughs of other sites it would sure take my marketing, testing and more importantly results to the next level. Now thanks to YouTube adding some new features we can see other video's Stats! When you view a YouTube video, right underneath is a NEW "Statistics & Info" tab. Before they added these tabs when you loaded a video you could choose wether or not to show these statistics. Now for the time being, all video's by defalt are showing stats.
YouTube's new Stats Tab shows only the top 5 referring sites, but this is extremely VALUABLE information. Now you can look at any of your competitor's videos and see 'where' most of their traffic is coming from. This is a great way to find new business strategies, possible business partners or content publishers in your market that would be ideal to send traffic to YOUR videos. Another nice and very viral feature YouTube just added is a link to add the video to MySpace or Facebook.
If you aren't yet tracking stats on your business I encourage you to start a routine to check stats daily. By doing this in time you will be able to visualize what the next day will look like, what's working what isn't etc. Every traffic portal in Veretekk gives you stats, it's up to you to check em and learn from what they are telling you. If one of your marketing strategies is YouTube GO NOW and do some valuable research into your competitors'videos before they HIDE the referral data.
Cindy McAsey
Marketing Strategies Coach
Takes your Business to the next level
I personally don't think of myself as a big "numbers" person, however the longer I'm online the more I realize testing and tracking is just part of running a successful online business. Tracking where the traffic is coming from on your sites will help you to know what to focus on. That's how I generally know when google has ranked my sites for a certain keyword.
Many times I've thought if I could just see the click throughs of other sites it would sure take my marketing, testing and more importantly results to the next level. Now thanks to YouTube adding some new features we can see other video's Stats! When you view a YouTube video, right underneath is a NEW "Statistics & Info" tab. Before they added these tabs when you loaded a video you could choose wether or not to show these statistics. Now for the time being, all video's by defalt are showing stats.
YouTube's new Stats Tab shows only the top 5 referring sites, but this is extremely VALUABLE information. Now you can look at any of your competitor's videos and see 'where' most of their traffic is coming from. This is a great way to find new business strategies, possible business partners or content publishers in your market that would be ideal to send traffic to YOUR videos. Another nice and very viral feature YouTube just added is a link to add the video to MySpace or Facebook.
If you aren't yet tracking stats on your business I encourage you to start a routine to check stats daily. By doing this in time you will be able to visualize what the next day will look like, what's working what isn't etc. Every traffic portal in Veretekk gives you stats, it's up to you to check em and learn from what they are telling you. If one of your marketing strategies is YouTube GO NOW and do some valuable research into your competitors'videos before they HIDE the referral data.
Cindy McAsey
Marketing Strategies Coach
Takes your Business to the next level
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